New Orleans and tomato juice

I don’t know why, but my drink of choice while flying is tomato juice. On land, I limit it’s consumption to Bloody Mary’s, but in the air? I’ll drink as much of the stuff that the fight attendents are willing to give me.
This might be a random thought to have on any given normal day, but considering that I am currently sitting in a plane and drinking said juice, it actually makes quite a lot of sense. I am en route to New Orleans for New Years celebrations with Matt. This is only day one of a week-long trip to the Grand Canyon, so I will be posting both on Pondering Owl and Wandering Owl with adventure updates. As for right now, we will be touching down soon and I will have to put my tray table up, so I will end this here. Stay tuned for more!

Au revoir!

Montauk Birthdays – Montauk Manor and Duckwalk Vineyard review

Last Tuesday the 2nd, I breached the mid-twenties era of my life when I finally reached 23 years of age. That Thursday, my boyfriend flew up from Florida and, after a Friday of reveling, we hopped into the car (Matt with a bit of a hangover) and headed out to the vast land called Long Island.
We drove for about three hours in a quite ridiculous rain storm. About an hour and half of that time was spent on the LIE, but the second half was a nice, scenic route on a smaller road through eastern Long Island. We passed through wine country, but decided to partake on the way back because of the truly worrying monsoon that was starting to pool on the roadway.
We reached Montauk Manor, our overnight of choice, in the later afternoon, just as it was getting dark(er than it had been the rest of the day). We drove up a winding path, ascending to finally reach the house on a hill overlooking the bay.
The outside of the manor was a spectacular sight, but it did not compare at all to the entrance hall. We walked through a courtyard with four gnarled trees, reaching to each other over our heads with their twisted branches. We passed through the tall double doors and entered into a hall with (I believe) marble floors, high ceilings, glass tables laden with holiday flowers, and hanging chandeliers. Check in was a quick process, and after dropping our bags off in our room, we decided to act on our hunger and drive down to the village in search of sustenance.
Unfortunately, that proved more difficult than we had given forethought to. It is currently most definitely not seafood season on the coast, and most of the little shacks and trucks that people wrote so much about on the internet were closed. On the other end of the spectrum, the restaurants were completely in the spirit of Montauk; for those who don’t get the image, think three or four dollar signs on Yelp.
In the end, we grabbed a Buffalo Chicken pizza pie and some Hoegaarden, then headed back to change into more suitable attire (ie. sweat pants) and eat. We killed almost the whole pizza, save one slice. It was wonderful.
I have now just realized that I never actually described the room. We got the executive studio room, which is a fairly small room, albeit one boasting a king size bed, a full kitchen complete with water kettle, and a very nice shower. It was way more than enough. We ate pizza in bed with some Top Gear on. I had a great night.
The next morning we woke up at 6 to get to the coast and catch the sunrise, but our plans were foiled by the fluffy looking formations of grouped water droplets known as clouds. However, we did enjoy the site of the light house decorated for Christmas, complete with lights and wreath. We also drove around the artillery roads, where we saw some bunkers and an old worn down radar. It was truly an interesting bit of history, one that I never really connected with LI.
Afterwards we headed back and had some complimentary breakfast, which in our case consisted of eggs, home fries, and a good liter of coffee. The restaurant where we were served is actually inside the manor, on the first floor. One wall is all windows looking outside onto a patio area, while the other three are decorated with lots of cute little paintings and Christmas ornaments; the whole setup was quaint and warm, and a wonderful place to have our morning meal in.
We had a few hours left after breakfast, so we went back to the room to quickly change into swim suits and headed to the first floor for some jacuzzi time.
The pool is not a big one, nor is the jaccuzi, but sufficient enough if you don’t plan to actually use them to work out. If you do want to get a sweat on that is not only brought on by hot water, then you could hit their exercise room, which although small, is normally equipped for a hotel gym.

By the time that we headed out at eleven, it was sunny and nice outside, which made our stop at Duckwalk Vineyards that much more enjoyable. If you’re ever driving out in Long Island wine country, I truly suggest you stop there. The main building where the store is located is a beautiful room with tall ceilings and windows spanning the whole height of the wooden walls. The tasting there costs $8 for a choice of 5 different wines, of which there are about thirty total to choose from, if not more. The bartender is an awfully nice man, engaging and funny; he gave a succinct description of each wine without being snobby and overbearing. It was a great end to the weekend, and we ended up buying two wines, a Windmill White and Gatsby Red, that the whole family ended up really enjoying.

If you would like to visit yourself, their website is .

All in all, a wonderful weekend. For anyone who has some time and a bit more money to spare, hit up Montauk Manor and Duckwalk Vineyards on your way out east.

I am picking up this writing thing again!

I have started a sister site that is completely not travel related. Wandering Owl will still be for adventure purposes, and considering that this New Years might involve a trip, there will be opportunity. I might also do a few venue/activity reviews on this blog, just to see if I can, so there could be some additions here too. There is a link to the sister website in the menu (pondering owl), so peruse at will.

Cheers!

Matt’s in the Air Force

This past week, for the first time in my life, I made the 17-ish hour drive from NYC to Montgomery, Alabama. I never had a reason to do so before, nor anyone that would really go with me if I did. So why this change of heart? Oh, what you wouldn’t do for a boy, right?

However, considering that he did take an international trek with me within this past year, I felt that it would be only proper to repay the debt. Oh, and he was getting commissioned to become a officer in the Air Force. No biggie, right?

He had been in OTS for two months, since the end of February, and although I spoke with him every day, I probably actually know very little. He told me the good things, the funny stories, the commendations that he received. He left many of the harder times out of his tales.

It hasn’t been easy on my end, either. There’s been a general lack of information that has made it very difficult to make informed decisions. This, compounded with my innate tendency towards indecision, has made me feel like I’m in a rut. I have tried to deal with it by meeting with friends, going out, reading…Netflix has been a great companion. I have always been better at looking at things up close, examining a book with my nose and inch away from the paper. In my current story, there are so many strands. I can see the strengths and weaknesses in each individual one, but I can’t see how to weave them together. It’s why I’ve always preferred drawing portraits over landscapes; faces need a large degree of detail, but it’s not possible to draw every single blade of grass. All the anxiety is bothersome to deal with.

Even though Matt did tell me a bunch, his stories are not mine to tell. He would know what is purely privileged information and what isn’t. I can only really talk about my side of the story – the people that I meet, the experiences that I have when visiting, etc. I don’t have time to write it today, but we’ll see how it goes, little by little.

Cheers.

 

Open letter to…

…people who travel with me on public transportation.

Or just travel in general. It doesn’t have to be with me.

First off, if you sit down on a long distance coach, and see that the unused seat next to has been left fully reclined by the previous sitter, fix it. I really don’t care if your bag is tired and needs to rest its head, I don’t care if your child’s imaginary friend is feeling sick that day and can’t sit up straight.

If there is a lack of butt touching fabric, there should be no seat back touching my knees.

Along the same line, if you are sitting in front of me, and recline your chair far enough to hit my legs, don’t start bouncing up and down to try to make it go further. I cannot suck my thighs back into my torso. Besides that, you are not my honey, babe, sweetie, nor sweet cheeks. You are a stranger. Get off of my lap.

If you have some sort of entertainment device, be it phone, game, or movie of some sort, then enjoy it! You brought it with you, so, please, entertain yourself silly. YOU brought it with YOU. Entertain YOURself. Let me sleep, let me write, let me think. I don’t want to hear your movie, TV show, Candy Crush game, or music. I hate it if it’s music I like, I abhor it if it’s music I don’t like. If I have to listen for a few hours straight, I will do something drastic. I will walk past you and cut the cheese. I will fall asleep in a way that I know will make me snore. I will sit behind you and breathe loudly and creepily through my mouth. Put earphones in. Make it quieter. Keep it out of my life.

If you’re a traveler that gets hungry along the way, please, snack away. With your mouth closed, burps contained, and odors limited. Those who know me also know that I call burps air-vomit. They don’t sound great, they smell funky, and have no place drifting past my face. I understand that you think its funny. I understand that you find it relieving. It is a bodily function that produces odor, and in a public place, that sort of thing belongs in a bathroom of some sort.

On that note, I finish. It is time to go to bed. I continue the job application process tomorrow.

Cheers.

Long time no see

So it’s been exactly a month since I’ve come back home, and that time a fair amount has happened. There’s been a snow storm or two, I’ve visited the natural history museum, gone to lake placid, gotten the news that Matt is going to the air force in February, started a temp job, finished a temp job, applied to lots of other jobs, and to round it off, had a nice, earth shaking arguments. All in all, I think it’s been a well rounded month. It’s been like the education that liberal arts colleges say they give, just in real life, and I didn’t have to pay 50,000 a year to experience it. Actually, I’ve just signed up for an online course about nuclear engineering that starts in March, with exams and everything. If anyone has a copy of Nuclear Engineering Theory and Technology of Commercial Nuclear Power that they’re willing to send me, I will be willing to return candy and chocolate and lots of gratitude. You know you want it (but not in the Robin Thicke way).
I’ve been thinking about social media and blogging, vlogging, etc, and I’ve come to a few realizations. I will never be a Twitter hound, despite the fact that I actually do have an account. Maybe I’ll actually install Twitter on my phone, try again… But I do believe it will be a fail. I enjoy blogging, but I will never be a good enough writer to actually gain a good amount of readers. Although videos are cool, hamming it up to a camera is hard for me. I like instagram, but I’ve taken and posted one selfie to date (pics with Frodo don’t count). And I pretty much only use Facebook for messenger and the occasional Facebook stalk (hey, you have to know who you are dealing with. It’s not like I mail horse heads to people’s houses. EVERYONE DOES IT, OKAY?). All in all, I’ve discovered that I’m a failure of a “modern day, connected young adult.”
I’m perfectly fine with that.
Anybody who knows me a little better will tell you, I hate being in crowds, hate being in loud places, hate being overwhelmed with simulation. However, I live in New York. Don’t get me wrong, I love it, but I have to deal with the aforementioned things every time I go outside. So when I’m away from it all, I like to actually feel reprieve from it. I don’t need it sneaking through on my phone, or through my computer.
Although I do like the YouTube culture. Don’t judge me with your reading eyes.
Anyway, this has turned into a brain fart. Here’s a picture of Frodo :
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He had a crazy night.
Cheers.

Back to life

So I am back in the States, and it is cold, snowy, icy, and…well, it most certainly is much more. But maybe I’ll leave that for my notebook. 

I’ve never been much of a talker. I think it’s why I do so well while travelling on my own; in situations during which others would go stir crazy, I can deal, especially if I have my notebook. Not to say that I don’t enjoy company. I seek it out while I am travelling, as meeting new people is always a pleasure. I can talk small talk: weather, schools, work, all simple things. Anything more, and I am gone. A gray buzz fills my head, and it is all I can do to muddle my way through a conversation.

My inability to engage has always been a sore point for my parents. They don’t understand my problem with answering broad questions, why my head gets muddled and why my words trip over my tongue as they leave my mouth. They tell me that it will make my future difficult, lonely.

I know. And that’s why I am scared. It’s something that I’ve been running from. Being back here in the states makes me panic. Too much panic, and I go numb.

So now I guess this blog will be about figuring the rest out. Less of a travel diary, and more…well, I am not really sure what to call it. I’ll see what I can get myself involved in. See what atypical things New York has to offer. 

I’ll be more lighthearted next time. Cheers.

The Return!: Christmas prep in Łódź

It’s the day if Christmas Eve! And there is a lot going on. I’ve been writing less the past few days, and that will probably continue until after the second day of Christmas, the 26th. In Łomża, I spent my days running around the house, playing and taking care of the youngsters (they called me Ciocia Marta, which means Aunt Marta. I’m too young for this). Now, in Łódź, there’s been cooking and shopping and wine drinking… All sorts of fun things. I hope that after the holiday period, I’ll be able to sit down for a little bit longer and write about all the things that go into preparation and celebration. But for now… MERRY CHRISTMAS!

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Tales from Łomża; Historie z Łomży

Today my grandmother and my took a bus into Łomża, a city a few miles north of Łódź, so that she could visit her family, and so that I could meet them. My grandmother was born and raised in this city, or rather on a farm in a little town right outside of it. I went to visit her old home today, at the request of my mother to take pictures, but also out of curiosity. The family still owns all of the land that they had once farmed, but no one lives there today. My grandmother’s brother, as one of the closer residents, is it’s main caretaker, but he relies a lot on the neighbors to keep unwanted guests away. My grandmother had moved out when she was twelve years old, to pursue an education that could only be found in a big city, and over the years all her siblings had followed suit for different reasons. Before today, no one had opened the house for five years.
The property was the closest one to the main road, so the limits of what the family owns were easily pointed out to me. The section where the family lived was closed off, but when we pulled up we opted out of using the gate, and instead went for a hole in the fence.
As we walked, my grandmother pointed out her memories to me there.
There were the apple trees that always produced tons of fruit every year. During this annum, no one had been around to gather the apples. The trees were bare, and the fruits lay on the ground, brown and decayed.
These were the bushes were her father was shot in the leg while running away. A group of the town’s men had been gathered at her house when Germans came through, and such meetings weren’t allowed.
Over there was the basement she had hid amongst the potatoes that had been stored there, when, again, German’s had come through.
This was the loft where the hay was stored, and where she would climb up to throw the bundles down to the barn floor. One time a little more than expected hit the ground; she had fallen down as well.
Over there in the field, where a dip could be seen, was where the bombs has fallen and torn holes in the ground. Soon after half the town had burned, along with cows, horses, and a number of other farm animals which could not be saved. They were all buried in the graves that had been ready-made by the bombs.
This barn, which had housed three horses, was set alight one night. Her father ran in, threw covers over the horses’ eyes and brought them out, only to have the beautiful gray shot down from an airplane.

And I heard all of these stories before we even stepped into the house. At first I thought that this wouldn’t be at all possible, as the sturdy, steel padlock had rusted through, and didn’t give way so easily. My grandmother had already turned away when the lock popped open and the door creaked ajar. The house was small and made of cement but, in testament to it’s sturdiness, still mostly whole in spite of disuse. The only bit that had completely fallen apart was the one section of wooden floor in the house. This part had given into moisture and rot, and fallen into the basement below. The house was cluttered up with an odd assortment of things, but wasn’t packed away or organized in any specific way. It actually looked like someone had gotten up from the couch one day and decided that they weren’t going to live there anymore. A pot and a kettle still stood on the stove; a basket lay abandoned in the doorway; the wardrobe stood half open, complete with old clothes on hangers. And the stories continued.
That wardrobe was the first one that my grandfather and grandmother bought together when they got married, and the burn on the bottom was from when my uncle’s diaper set on fire (no, he does not have atomic gas. It had been of the reusable cloth type, and had caught on fire while drying). It had since been given to my great grandparents, and the clothes that hang inside are theirs.
This is the room where classes were held, when there was still no school in the town. In the next room over the younger kids had lessons as well.
There were many more. I won’t share all of them here.
As we were leaving, a beautiful pair of old radios caught my eye. I hope that my family doesn’t ever decide to throw them out. They might not be expensive or rare, but they’re a well preserved reminder of the lives and history that, once upon a time, happened here.
We same outside to see the neighbor skinning a rabbit, which hung from a gate frame leading to their garden. I asked if I could take his picture, and not only did he agree, but he seemed to take a liking to me. He offered to show me more of his rabbits, especially since he had to go kill another one. He has planned to give both to various members of my family, so we had to stick around until he was done anyway. I had no idea what to expect; I’ve never even read about how rabbits are killed, let alone seen it in person. It turns out that it’s done with a swift blow to the back of the neck whilst being held upside down, which I suppose not only makes it easier, but improves accuracy. It was over in seconds which meant that I, even as an avid animal lover, took it remarkably well. Skinning as also quick, done in a matter of minutes, and with no blood spilt at all. It as quite impressive, overall.
I also got to see their milk chickens, their dog, their milk cows, and the mother cat with kittens that lives in the barn with then.
I got to hug a kitten today. Paired with seeing a sizeable chunk of family history made today a wonderful day.
Though there could have been less food. My stomach hurts quite a bit right now. Believe me, though, it was too good to pass up.
Here’s to another good day tomorrow. Cheers.

Why I love shopping in Poland (while not on a Polish payroll)

Today I met up with a friend, with a plan to grab some food and do some Christmas shopping at the Manufaktura. For our early dinner, I had a 12 inch pizza with bacon, mushrooms, peppers and egg, and she had pasta with tuna and vegetables. Both dishes cost a whole 15 PLN (5 USD; my disclaimer is that it was a lunch special), and since it isn’t the norm to take a doggy bag in Poland, I had to fight valiantly to finish mine.
Because it’s always a good idea to get really full, then go shopping, my friend and I decided that our first stop in our Christmas shopping adventure would be the clearance rack in H&M. After all, what sort of Christmas would it be if you did not get yourself a present? I won’t go into details, but let’s just say that neither one of was disappointed with our Christmas takings.
After that we did get down to work. She bought her family gifts, I bought dinner for mine, and we again got a bit more for ourselves. Hey, a girl needs some golden nail polish on the cheap; it’s the holidays!
And that is how a happy four hours passed us by. Even happier was my wallet: after all the food, clothes, and presents, my purse was about 210 PLN (70 USD) emptier. That’s pretty much unheard of in America, especially when that sum includes a dress, a sweater, and two scarves. Yeah.
HOWEVER: this is mainly possible because, even when my main source of income consists of working three swimming jobs during the months of the year, I make a good amount more than many students here. Truth, after I come back to the states, pretty much all of my money will be going to paying off my loans, and these shopping sprees will be few and far between. Luxury money will be more often used on snowboarding, since I can’t let the winter go by without hitting the slopes at least…thrice? I don’t know. But, either way, Polish students don’t earn very much, if they work at all.
Yeah, Poland is having an unemployment problem. Which I am sure comes as a huge shock, considering how remarkably well the rest of the world is doing.
Look at how viscous the sarcasm is as it oozes from that statement.
Tomorrow I go to get my eyelashes and brows done with henna, to make then darker (this being not the only activity of the day, of course). I got an at home kit, but for the first time I’m gonna go get it done professionally, I think. Plus, I bought black, which I intended only for my lashes, but it might be too dark for me. If it is… Merry Christmas, Laura! (If you’re her, you’ll know it, so other Laura’s, don’t get too excited). As an example, here is what the at home kit looks like:

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You discover something new every day. And on that high note…
Cheers!