The Return!: Christmas prep in Łódź

It’s the day if Christmas Eve! And there is a lot going on. I’ve been writing less the past few days, and that will probably continue until after the second day of Christmas, the 26th. In Łomża, I spent my days running around the house, playing and taking care of the youngsters (they called me Ciocia Marta, which means Aunt Marta. I’m too young for this). Now, in Łódź, there’s been cooking and shopping and wine drinking… All sorts of fun things. I hope that after the holiday period, I’ll be able to sit down for a little bit longer and write about all the things that go into preparation and celebration. But for now… MERRY CHRISTMAS!

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Tales from Łomża; Historie z Łomży

Today my grandmother and my took a bus into Łomża, a city a few miles north of Łódź, so that she could visit her family, and so that I could meet them. My grandmother was born and raised in this city, or rather on a farm in a little town right outside of it. I went to visit her old home today, at the request of my mother to take pictures, but also out of curiosity. The family still owns all of the land that they had once farmed, but no one lives there today. My grandmother’s brother, as one of the closer residents, is it’s main caretaker, but he relies a lot on the neighbors to keep unwanted guests away. My grandmother had moved out when she was twelve years old, to pursue an education that could only be found in a big city, and over the years all her siblings had followed suit for different reasons. Before today, no one had opened the house for five years.
The property was the closest one to the main road, so the limits of what the family owns were easily pointed out to me. The section where the family lived was closed off, but when we pulled up we opted out of using the gate, and instead went for a hole in the fence.
As we walked, my grandmother pointed out her memories to me there.
There were the apple trees that always produced tons of fruit every year. During this annum, no one had been around to gather the apples. The trees were bare, and the fruits lay on the ground, brown and decayed.
These were the bushes were her father was shot in the leg while running away. A group of the town’s men had been gathered at her house when Germans came through, and such meetings weren’t allowed.
Over there was the basement she had hid amongst the potatoes that had been stored there, when, again, German’s had come through.
This was the loft where the hay was stored, and where she would climb up to throw the bundles down to the barn floor. One time a little more than expected hit the ground; she had fallen down as well.
Over there in the field, where a dip could be seen, was where the bombs has fallen and torn holes in the ground. Soon after half the town had burned, along with cows, horses, and a number of other farm animals which could not be saved. They were all buried in the graves that had been ready-made by the bombs.
This barn, which had housed three horses, was set alight one night. Her father ran in, threw covers over the horses’ eyes and brought them out, only to have the beautiful gray shot down from an airplane.

And I heard all of these stories before we even stepped into the house. At first I thought that this wouldn’t be at all possible, as the sturdy, steel padlock had rusted through, and didn’t give way so easily. My grandmother had already turned away when the lock popped open and the door creaked ajar. The house was small and made of cement but, in testament to it’s sturdiness, still mostly whole in spite of disuse. The only bit that had completely fallen apart was the one section of wooden floor in the house. This part had given into moisture and rot, and fallen into the basement below. The house was cluttered up with an odd assortment of things, but wasn’t packed away or organized in any specific way. It actually looked like someone had gotten up from the couch one day and decided that they weren’t going to live there anymore. A pot and a kettle still stood on the stove; a basket lay abandoned in the doorway; the wardrobe stood half open, complete with old clothes on hangers. And the stories continued.
That wardrobe was the first one that my grandfather and grandmother bought together when they got married, and the burn on the bottom was from when my uncle’s diaper set on fire (no, he does not have atomic gas. It had been of the reusable cloth type, and had caught on fire while drying). It had since been given to my great grandparents, and the clothes that hang inside are theirs.
This is the room where classes were held, when there was still no school in the town. In the next room over the younger kids had lessons as well.
There were many more. I won’t share all of them here.
As we were leaving, a beautiful pair of old radios caught my eye. I hope that my family doesn’t ever decide to throw them out. They might not be expensive or rare, but they’re a well preserved reminder of the lives and history that, once upon a time, happened here.
We same outside to see the neighbor skinning a rabbit, which hung from a gate frame leading to their garden. I asked if I could take his picture, and not only did he agree, but he seemed to take a liking to me. He offered to show me more of his rabbits, especially since he had to go kill another one. He has planned to give both to various members of my family, so we had to stick around until he was done anyway. I had no idea what to expect; I’ve never even read about how rabbits are killed, let alone seen it in person. It turns out that it’s done with a swift blow to the back of the neck whilst being held upside down, which I suppose not only makes it easier, but improves accuracy. It was over in seconds which meant that I, even as an avid animal lover, took it remarkably well. Skinning as also quick, done in a matter of minutes, and with no blood spilt at all. It as quite impressive, overall.
I also got to see their milk chickens, their dog, their milk cows, and the mother cat with kittens that lives in the barn with then.
I got to hug a kitten today. Paired with seeing a sizeable chunk of family history made today a wonderful day.
Though there could have been less food. My stomach hurts quite a bit right now. Believe me, though, it was too good to pass up.
Here’s to another good day tomorrow. Cheers.

Why I love shopping in Poland (while not on a Polish payroll)

Today I met up with a friend, with a plan to grab some food and do some Christmas shopping at the Manufaktura. For our early dinner, I had a 12 inch pizza with bacon, mushrooms, peppers and egg, and she had pasta with tuna and vegetables. Both dishes cost a whole 15 PLN (5 USD; my disclaimer is that it was a lunch special), and since it isn’t the norm to take a doggy bag in Poland, I had to fight valiantly to finish mine.
Because it’s always a good idea to get really full, then go shopping, my friend and I decided that our first stop in our Christmas shopping adventure would be the clearance rack in H&M. After all, what sort of Christmas would it be if you did not get yourself a present? I won’t go into details, but let’s just say that neither one of was disappointed with our Christmas takings.
After that we did get down to work. She bought her family gifts, I bought dinner for mine, and we again got a bit more for ourselves. Hey, a girl needs some golden nail polish on the cheap; it’s the holidays!
And that is how a happy four hours passed us by. Even happier was my wallet: after all the food, clothes, and presents, my purse was about 210 PLN (70 USD) emptier. That’s pretty much unheard of in America, especially when that sum includes a dress, a sweater, and two scarves. Yeah.
HOWEVER: this is mainly possible because, even when my main source of income consists of working three swimming jobs during the months of the year, I make a good amount more than many students here. Truth, after I come back to the states, pretty much all of my money will be going to paying off my loans, and these shopping sprees will be few and far between. Luxury money will be more often used on snowboarding, since I can’t let the winter go by without hitting the slopes at least…thrice? I don’t know. But, either way, Polish students don’t earn very much, if they work at all.
Yeah, Poland is having an unemployment problem. Which I am sure comes as a huge shock, considering how remarkably well the rest of the world is doing.
Look at how viscous the sarcasm is as it oozes from that statement.
Tomorrow I go to get my eyelashes and brows done with henna, to make then darker (this being not the only activity of the day, of course). I got an at home kit, but for the first time I’m gonna go get it done professionally, I think. Plus, I bought black, which I intended only for my lashes, but it might be too dark for me. If it is… Merry Christmas, Laura! (If you’re her, you’ll know it, so other Laura’s, don’t get too excited). As an example, here is what the at home kit looks like:

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You discover something new every day. And on that high note…
Cheers!

Back in Łódź, and departure draws ever closer

I am back at home base, with the major intention of getting ready to leave yet again. On Friday, at about 1am, my grandmother and I intend to take a bus to visit my family in Łomża, somewhere I’ve actually never been. This morning I took a bus back from Poznań on a line called Polski Bus, on a ticket that cost all of 15 PLN (5 USD); if you ever need to travel somewhere in Poland, see if this company services your route. Their buses are large and comfortable, complete with Wi-Fi and electrical outlets. No, I’m not being paid to say this. Yes, i enjoyed it that much. After traveling on some cheap transportation lines, you really learn to appreciate a softer seat and a few extra inches of leg room. It makes all the difference when trying to take a nap without losing all circulation in your legs.
Each change in locale brings an increased of sense of finality, especially since all the commuting makes the time disappear. Tomorrow I, again, have plans for dinner and shopping with a friend, and then in Thursday we will be preparing for the night bus. The past week already flew by, and I’m sure the next one will as well, especially since there will be (dun dun dun) children involved. I must prepare myself.
Amongst all of this, the 30th draws ever closer, and with it comes the end of adventure and return to “real life.” With real life comes the need to work, to pay student loans, and to figure out what is going on in my life, both personal and  professional.
I’m not ready.
I can’t imagine sitting in an office or a lab all day. I like finding interesting places. I like blazing trails, even if they are only new to me. I like sleeping in a different place every night. And I like writing about it.
But money is a necessity, and doing this spends it when, instead, it must be earned. If anyone has a suggestion for it to be otherwise, please, make it. In that case, if anyone has a suggestion as to how I can improve my writing, speak up. All I ask is that you don’t be mean.
Maybe personal reflections aren’t as interesting as stories of new sights. In that case, I offer my apologies. I’ll go back to offering up tales of new places on Friday. For now though…
Cheers!

Hey there, Polish night life

So, yesterday, after a day full of hanging out with family, my cousin, her husband and I head back home. Being the night owls we are (my cousin and I have the family name Sowinski… Sowa means owl in Polish… Wandering owl… And so it all becomes clear!), we just made a quick stop to dress up more warmly, then headed back out. Poznań, during the holiday season, gets very decked out with holiday cheer, especially around the old town. It becomes filled with little wooden huts selling mulled wine and food, centered around a huge Christmas tree made out of green plastic bottles. Yesterday, earlier in the day, there had also been an ice sculpture showcase, the products of which were also standing around the square. Although not ugly by any means, these had unfortunately fallen victim to above freezing temperatures, and figures that at one point had presumably had facial features had since been reduced to having dripping blobs for faces.
We bought ourselves a cup of mulled wine (a whole 4 PLN a cup) to warm up as we walked around, but ended up cutting that short to step into a pub for a glad of beer/a gin and tonic. I’ll ask my cousin for the name tomorrow, but the pub was located right off the central square. In any case, it had a nice atmosphere in that it wasn’t filled with drunk students on a Saturday night.
Oh, fudge, I sounds old. But it really was nice! It had a bit of live music to start out, which then was swapped out by a DJ. The drinks were cheap, relative to American ones, and the company was good.
Due to our age, we didn’t last the long. After some 1 am fries, we called it night and headed back home.
It was good night. I hope you all follow suite.
Cheers!

The land of my forefathers

So I’ve been here a few days already, and I haven’t written much because, well… There isn’t much to write. I’m at my grandparent’s house now, in Łódź. For the past few days I’ve been hanging out, resting, taking care of errands, that kind of thing. On Thursday, I’ll be going to Poznan to see the other half of my family, and the week after that, possibly to Łomża. I’ll be traveling around right up to the bit I actually leave plans to come back to America, at the end of this month. Excitement abounds.
I’ve been working on updating the posts that I didn’t have time/energy to do while in Dublin. I finally have internet here on my phone (my grandparents don’t have Wi-Fi), so I’ll be able to do all that needs to be done, with time. For now, cheers and adieu!